November was a sad month

So many things have happened over the last month that I don't know where to begin. I'll start with the sad. My father-in-law passed away on Saturday, November 21, 2009. He was 87 years old, but he was in great health, at least according to his doctor whom he saw a week before he died. Who's to know when your time is up. He was standing out on the street corner in St. Louis doing charity work (old newsboys day) which he had done for 50+ years and was doing great when a woman saw him fall down. She thought he missed a step on the curb and went over and administered CPR because she could not find a pulse, a doctor also stopped to help and administer CPR. They did resuscitate him and an ambulance took him to the hospital. Originally, they thought it was a heart attack. We immediate left for St. Louis, a 5 hour drive (after taking the kids out of school) and found him all hooked up to a ventilator and monitors at Barnes Hospital. The doctors were pretty grim and after running tests determined it was not a heart attack but that his heart just stopped-anyway it turned out that he never woke up and the ventilator was keeping him alive, barely. As soon as the whole family arrived (some coming from LA, PA, NH, TX) we abided by his wishes and removed the ventilator. He died peacefully. He was a great man and a gentleman. He loved animals and they loved him. He would never kill a living thing. He would capture a bee or moth that had gotten in the house and take it outside. He loved nature and spent hours on his lawn and he was generous to a fault! It was so amazing at the funeral. People came from all over, even his former postman. Neighbors we had never met brought food and air mattresses. No one had a bad word for my father-in-law...Like I said he was a great man and I will miss him so much!!!